I haven't heard a word/text/fb from my bio mom since our weekend together a few months ago - until last week on FB when she posted a comment. I haven't had her new home phone number since she moved to Kentucky but I've left a few messages on her cell phone. Although I didn't even know for sure if she still had the same cell phone number. I left another message a few days ago after her FB message and she finally called me back two days later. We were on the phone for an hour. The phone call was good but I get kind of tired of all the excuses of why she hasn't kept in touch. I do have her home phone number now though. I never really know if I just need to wait until she's ready to contact me or if I should be pursuing her a bit more because she's unsure of the stability of our relationship. I do know she still carries a lot of guilt. Not only can I see it for myself, she's told me. Most of the time I feel like I have to be the adult in the relationship and do the right thing. Unfortunately, I don't always know what the right thing is.
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